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STICK WITH JUST THE FACTS

“Don’t tell yourself anything more than what the initial impressions report. It’s been reported to you that someone is speaking badly about you. This is the report—the report wasn’t that you’ve been harmed. I see that my son is sick—but not that his life is at risk. So always stay within your first impressions, and don’t add to them in your head—this way nothing can happen to you.”

- MARCUS AURELIUS, MEDITATIONS

Summary:
Marcus Aurelius reminds us to stick to the raw facts of a situation without layering them with emotional assumptions or imagined consequences. By responding only to what is actually known, we can maintain clarity and calm.

Interpretation:
When someone criticises us or an event doesn’t go our way, our minds tend to spin stories—“They hate me,” “This is a disaster,” “Everything’s going wrong.” But Stoicism teaches us to pause and see the situation for what it is, not what we fear it might be. For example, hearing that someone spoke badly about you is just that—words spoken. It doesn’t mean you’re ruined or less worthy. Similarly, if your child is unwell, the fact is sickness—not death. By separating observation from interpretation, we reduce unnecessary suffering and stay grounded in reality.

 

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