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CONTROL AND CHOICE

“The chief task in life is simply this: to identify and separate matters so that I can say clearly to myself which are externals not under my control, and which have to do with the choices I actually control. Where then do I look for good and evil? Not to uncontrollable externals, but within myself to the choices that are my own…”

- EPICTETUS, DISCOURSES

Summary:

Epictetus highlights the importance of distinguishing between what we can control and what we cannot. He advises focusing on our internal choices—our thoughts, actions, and decisions—rather than external circumstances, which are beyond our influence. By doing so, we shift our perspective of good and evil from external events to the quality of our own choices and behaviour.

Interpretation:

In a real-life context, this wisdom is particularly relevant in situations like job interviews, relationships, or personal setbacks. For example, you can’t control whether someone hires you, but you can control how well you prepare and present yourself. Similarly, you can’t force someone to appreciate you, but you can choose to act with integrity and kindness. This perspective frees you from the anxiety of outcomes and allows you to focus on doing your best in areas that are within your power, embodying the core lessons of The Daily Stoic.

 

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