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A DIFFERENT WAY TO PRAY

“Try praying differently, and see what happens: Instead of asking for ‘a way to sleep with her, try asking for ‘a way to stop desiring to sleep with her.’ Instead of ‘a way to get rid of him, try asking for ‘a way to not crave his demise.’ Instead of ‘a way to not lose my child, try asking for ‘a way to lose my fear of it’.”

- MARCUS AURELIUS, MEDITATIONS

Summary
In this quote, Marcus Aurelius encourages us to change the way we pray and approach our desires. Instead of asking for external circumstances to change—such as fulfilling desires or avoiding loss—he suggests that we ask for internal transformation. This shift in perspective means focusing on controlling our desires, fears, and emotions, rather than trying to control the external world. By seeking strength and wisdom within ourselves, we cultivate a deeper sense of peace and resilience.

Interpretation
In practical terms, this approach teaches us that true power lies in mastering our inner selves, not in manipulating the world around us. For someone familiar with Stoic teachings, this reinforces the idea of focusing on what is within our control—our thoughts, reactions, and attitudes. By learning to let go of attachments and fears, we gain freedom from the anxiety and frustration that come from trying to change things outside our control. This change in how we “pray” leads to a more balanced, composed life, grounded in inner strength.

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