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ALWAYS LOVE

“Hecato says, ‘I can teach you a love potion made without any dugs, herbs, or special spell—if you would be loved, love.”

- SENECA, MORAL LETTERS

Summary:
In this quote, Seneca shares a teaching from Hecato, explaining that the secret to being loved doesn’t require any magical remedies or external tools. Instead, the true “love potion” is simple: if you want to be loved, you must first give love to others.

Interpretation:
In real life, this reminds us that relationships thrive on reciprocity. If we desire affection, kindness, or respect from others, we must first embody those qualities ourselves. Rather than seeking love through manipulation or external means, Stoicism teaches that genuine love stems from showing care and compassion, which naturally fosters love in return.

 

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