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LISTENING ACCOMPLISHES MORE THAN SPEAKING

“To the youngster talking nonsense Zeno said, ‘The reason why we have two ears and only one mouth is so we might listen more and talk less.’”

- DIOGENES LAERTIUS, LIVES OF EMINENT PHILOSOPHERS

Summary:
Zeno reminded a young person that we were given two ears and only one mouth for a reason—to listen more and speak less. Listening, he implies, is the more valuable and productive of the two.

Interpretation:
In daily life, this serves as a powerful Stoic lesson about humility and self-restraint. The Daily Stoic encourages us to be curious learners rather than eager talkers. By listening attentively—whether in conversations, meetings, or disagreements—we gain insight, avoid misunderstandings, and show respect to others. Speaking less also helps us avoid saying things we might regret. In a world full of noise and opinion, cultivating the habit of listening is a sign of maturity, discipline, and wisdom.

 

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