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SEEING THINGS AS THE PERSON AT FAULT DOES

“Whenever someone has done wrong by you, immediately consider what notion of good or evil they had in doing it. For when you see that, you’ll feel compassion, instead of astonishment or rage. For you may yourself have the same notions of good and evil, or similar ones, in which case you’ll make an allowance for what they’ve done. But if you no longer hold the same notions, you’ll be more readily gracious for their error.”

- MARCUS AURELIUS, MEDITATIONS

Summary:
Marcus Aurelius advises that when someone wrongs us, we should try to understand their perspective rather than reacting with anger. People act based on their own beliefs about what is right or wrong, even if those beliefs are flawed. By recognising this, we can replace resentment with compassion, realising that we too have made mistakes under misguided assumptions in the past.

Interpretation:
In real life, this means responding to others’ faults with empathy rather than outrage. For example, if someone is rude or unfair, instead of taking it personally, we can consider their motivations—perhaps they are acting out of fear, ignorance, or past experiences. If we remember times when we have also misjudged situations or acted imperfectly, it becomes easier to forgive and let go. This mindset allows us to maintain inner peace and avoid unnecessary emotional distress.

 

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