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THE BUCK STOPS HERE

“For nothing outside my reasoned choice can hinder or harm it—my reasoned choice alone can do this to itself. If we would lean this way whenever we fail, and would blame only ourselves and remember that nothing but opinion is the cause of a troubled mind and uneasiness, then by God, I swear we would be making progress.”

- EPICTETUS, DISCOURSES

Summary:
Epictetus teaches that no external force can truly harm us—only our own judgments can. Peace of mind depends on where we place blame: on circumstances or on ourselves.

Interpretation:
This is ultimate accountability. The buck stops with us. It’s not the insults, setbacks, or disappointments that disturb us—it’s the opinions we form about them. If we take ownership of our inner world, we become untouchable. Every time we resist blaming others and instead turn inward, we strengthen our freedom. Growth begins the moment we stop pointing fingers and start mastering our choices.

 

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