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TO EACH HIS OWN

“Another has done me wrong? Let him see to it. He has his own tendencies, and his own affairs. What I have now is what the common nature has willed and what I endeavour to accomplish now what my nature wills.”

- MARCUS AURELIUS, MEDITATIONS

Summary:

Marcus Aurelius teaches that when someone wrongs us, it is their issue to deal with, not ours. Each person acts according to their own nature, experiences, and choices. Instead of getting caught up in resentment or trying to control others, we should focus on our own actions and what aligns with our values. The only thing within our power is how we choose to respond.

Interpretation:

In real life, this means letting go of the need to seek revenge or dwell on others’ wrongdoings. If someone treats us unfairly, we can waste energy feeling bitter, or we can recognise that their actions reflect them—not us. For instance, rather than succumbing to anger when a coworker takes credit for our work, we should concentrate on maintaining our integrity. By detaching from others’ behaviour and committing to our own principles, we free ourselves from unnecessary suffering and maintain inner peace.

 

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