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WHY DO YOU NEED TO IMPRESS THESE PEOPLE AGAIN?

“If you should ever turn your will to things outside your control in order to impress someone, be sure that you have wrecked your whole purpose in life. Be content, then, to be a philosopher in all that you do, and if you wish also to be seen as one, show yourself first that you are and you will succeed.”

- EPICTETUS, ENCHIRIDION

Summary:
Epictetus warns that seeking approval from others by chasing things beyond our control undermines our true purpose. Instead of worrying about how we appear to others, we should focus on genuinely embodying philosophical principles. If we live with integrity, recognition will follow naturally.

Interpretation:
In daily life, this reminds us not to waste energy trying to impress people with wealth, status, or external achievements. True fulfilment comes from being virtuous and authentic, not from validation. Rather than seeking to be seen as wise, successful, or admirable, we should prioritise actually being those things—living by our values rather than performing for others.

 

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